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[3-40] Decoding boys and Their Journey Through Puberty

[3-40] Decoding boys and Their Journey Through Puberty

I’ve said it a gajillion times. I’ll say it again. Our kids are waiting for us to start this conversation! But what if we get mixed signals in return? Like slammed doors. Or a son who suddenly grunts most of his words. What then? Is there a different approach for boys than girls? And how does a boy’s journey through puberty impact their response to pornography?  In this episode, I talk with Cara Natterson, MD, who is a pediatrician, consultant, and New York Times, bestselling author. She’s written numerous books on parenting and puberty. Her latest work, Decoding Boys: New…
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[3-39] I Don’t Think I Can Tell My Parents About This

[3-39] I Don’t Think I Can Tell My Parents About This

I’ve heard it both ways. Either “I could never tell my parents” or “telling my parents was the best thing I ever did.” Sometimes from the same kid! Sadly, it's often when our kids need the most help that they retreat and distance themselves from us. ​​ Think about it. If it’s hard for us to talk to our kids about pornography, imagine how they must feel! In this episode, I invite parents to listen while I speak directly to tweens and teens. The goal is to help teens understand where their parents are coming from a bit better. And…
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[3-38] Helping boys build identity and self-worth free from pornography

[3-38] Helping boys build identity and self-worth free from pornography

Porn is a health issue that impacts EVERYONE—women and men, girls, and boys. Still, the statistics are clear that boys consume porn more frequently and earlier than girls. So while we work hard to dispel the myth that “only boys struggle” we certainly don’t want to minimize or dismiss their specific challenges. What do they need? How can we reach them? And how can we help boys build identity and self-worth free from pornography? In this episode, I talk with Sathiya Sam, the creator of DeepCleanTM, an addiction recovery program for men. Sathiya knows firsthand how early exposure can negatively…
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[3-37] Dear Savvy: How can I avoid scaring my child with too much information?

[3-37] Dear Savvy: How can I avoid scaring my child with too much information?

TMI, too much information. It’s a real thing. And it can present real challenges when talking to kids about pornography. How do we balance the desire to protect children while preparing them with the information they need?  This episode is part of our #DearSavvy series. Sometimes you just want a quick answer to a burning question. These shorter episodes are designed to give you just that. Tune in to the podcast to hear the whole scoop, and check out the show notes for helpful tools and information. If you’d like to submit a question, click here to Contact Us.  Dear…
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[3-36] Managing Media and Tech with Multiple Ages Under One Roof

[3-36] Managing Media and Tech with Multiple Ages Under One Roof

It's tricky enough managing media and tech with one child, right? What do you do when you have a whole crew of kids? A lot of well-meaning parenting advice tends to gloss over the reality that most families are navigating multiple ages and stages of development simultaneously. How do you shelter the youngest while giving your older children the autonomy they need? This week I am excited to chat with Candance Larson, mother of eight children and host of the Thriving with 8 Podcast. Candace is an advocate for recognizing motherhood as the best profession in the world and is…
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[3-35] Ready, Set, Get Off the Fence: Talking to Kids About Pornography

[3-35] Ready, Set, Get Off the Fence: Talking to Kids About Pornography

Time and again, the same questions come up. When should I talk to my kids? How do I get started? Won’t I make them more curious? Almost every parent feels this, I think. Which is why I am excited to announce that Get Off the Fence is NOW AVAILABLE! This course is a guided method to help parents move from feeling anxious to confidently talking to their child or teen about pornography. Ready to get started?  In this episode, I’ll explain exactly what I mean when I say get off the fence, what the fence is, how to take that…
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[3-34] What it Takes to Realize a City Free From Porn

[3-34] What it Takes to Realize a City Free From Porn

Think about your city. Then think about the children that live there. What are their needs? What are their wants? What is their cry? Once we start asking the right questions, that’s when we start to get answers—solutions. For one woman the solution was to collaborate with her mayor and launch the City Free From Porn campaign.  This week, I am thrilled to have Letitia Shelton return to the podcast. You may remember, I spoke with her in season two about instilling value, beauty, and purpose in girls (Ep. #2-9). Back then we briefly talked about the City Free From…
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[3-33] Ready to Start Bold, Brave Conversations with Your Kids?

[3-33] Ready to Start Bold, Brave Conversations with Your Kids?

When it comes to talking to kids about pornography, what’s better, boldness or bravery? The answer is YES! With a topic that takes most of us far outside our comfort zone, we need to gather all the strength we can muster.  A phrase I often repeat is: be bold, be brave, be honest. I believe these are the secret sauce ingredients to building, not just our own confidence around tricky topics like pornography, but also in opening the doors and getting our kids to engage in the conversation. All three are necessary. Today, we’ll focus on the first two. Bold,…
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[3-32] 5 Tips to Ensure A Safer Sleepover Experience

[3-32] 5 Tips to Ensure A Safer Sleepover Experience

Did you grow up going to sleepovers? Do you have fond memories? Best friends, hanging out all night? Are you eager to carry on the tradition? Or would you rather it disappear altogether? What about the risks? Are they greater in the digital age? Or is there any way to ensure a safer sleepover experience? Sleepovers were a huge part of my childhood. Almost every weekend, my best friend and I would get together, trek to the candy store, play games, plunk down in front of our favorite shows, and giggle into the wee hours of the night. I have…
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[3-31] Healthy (Not Awkward) Sex Talks with Children and Teens

[3-31] Healthy (Not Awkward) Sex Talks with Children and Teens

The sex talk has gotten a bad rap for decades. Awkward. Uncomfortable. Embarrassing. Does it have to be that way? Not at all. Many of our preconceptions about sex talks with children and teens are actually false. If we want to help our kids understand the harms of pornography, the truth is, we have to start with healthy and positive conversations about sex. Let’s find out how.  ​​ In this episode, I am joined by Natasja Visser, the creator of Let’SEXplain, a program designed to help parents and teens talk openly about sex. Natasja’s approach is down-to-earth and inviting. With…
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