Finding the Courage and Strength to Talk to Your Kids About Pornography

Finding the Courage and Strength to Talk to Your Kids About Pornography

Does the idea of talking to your child or teen about pornography make you nervous? Why do you think that is? Perhaps, simply, it’s a conversation muscle that hasn’t been used. I’ve been thinking about strength lately. And all the courageous things we do as parents that take us out of our comfort zone. What do you do when you don’t feel strong? How can you find the necessary courage and strength to talk to your kids about pornography? One of my friends posted about an impressive (read: insane) workout she completed on New Year’s Day to mark the beginning…
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How to Safely Address Pornography in the Classroom

How to Safely Address Pornography in the Classroom

When has sex-education not been a hot topic? One side against the other. Home against the state. But while concerned adults are still duking it out, internet pornography has swooped in and taken over. Not cool! Porn instructs children and teens through the lens of exploitation. So how do we set our differences aside and find a way to safely address pornography in the classroom? Liz Walker, Managing Director of the Youth Wellbeing Project, says the key to better education is to get over the “us against them” mentality. Rather, we need to look at both sides objectively to determine…
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Teen Inspires Families To Tackle The Porn Talk

Teen Inspires Families To Tackle The Porn Talk

Imagine being a kid, all alone, and carrying the weight of a dark secret. For many teens, that’s how they describe using porn. What begins as a curiosity quickly becomes a compulsion. Breaking free feels nearly impossible. Now, imagine being that same kid and finding out you have a whole team supporting you: parents and friends that love you enough to tackle the porn talk. And help you find true freedom from pornography! I had the privilege this week of meeting and talking with Smith Alley. By all accounts Smith is your average seventeen-year-old. He goes to high school. He…
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New Resource to Help Kids Stand Up to Sexting

New Resource to Help Kids Stand Up to Sexting

On your list of tricky topics to bring up with your kids, how high is sexting? Top 3? Top 10? Is it even there? The combination of digital cameras, instant messaging, and the adolescent brain puts our kids at huge risk. Bullying begins. An intimate photo is blasted. Police are called in. Kids today need to know they have better options. They need to know that they can stand up to sexting.  Fortunately, there’s a phenomenal resource that takes this tricky topic and turns it into a fun—yes fun!—and incredibly comfortable conversation starter. It’s a book (or a guide, if…
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Tech-Free or Tech-Friendly? Finding the Perfect Gift for Kids.

Tech-Free or Tech-Friendly? Finding the Perfect Gift for Kids.

How do we choose the perfect gift for kids today? And what does that even mean? Do we simply get them whatever they ask for? We could go with the latest tech device, right? But then that means coming up with digital safety solutions. Maybe it’s better to choose a more thoughtful and creative gift? It’s possible that there are just too many choices! Well friends, 2020 has caused us enough stress! Budgets may be tight. And is it safe to say that we're all sick of screens? Let’s take a fresh look at how to tackle the Holiday shopping…
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Dear Savvy: How do I start the conversation about porn with my kids?

Dear Savvy: How do I start the conversation about porn with my kids?

Pornography is easily accessible and is permeating our lives. And while we, as parents, are becoming more aware of its effects and recognize the need to talk with our children about pornography, many wonder when, where, and how to start the conversation. It’s a scary task, oftentimes more so for parents than for the kids! So, where do we start?  This episode is part of our #DearSavvy series. Sometimes you just want a quick answer to a burning question. These shorter episodes are designed to give you just that.Tune into the podcast to hear the whole scoop, and check out…
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How to Teach Kids Body Safety from an Early Age

How to Teach Kids Body Safety from an Early Age

Child sexual abuse. It’s a serious topic with no easy answers. It can hurt just thinking about it—no matter whose child it affects. So what are we to do? Do we close our eyes, try to think of happier thoughts, and wish for it to all go away? No! We do what we can do. We control what we can control; we teach children about body safety and give them the best protective information we can. No one knows how to do this better than Holly-ann Martin. She, with the help of her husband Roger, founded Safe4Kids, a Western Australian…
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3 Ways To Help Kids Safely Enjoy Anime

3 Ways To Help Kids Safely Enjoy Anime

Do you have a child who is obsessed with anime? Are you freaking out? Or maybe you just want to know what all the hype is about. What is anime? Is it safe for kids? If not, how can I protect them? Is there any way to safely enjoy anime?  Anime. Suddenly it’s everywhere. All the kids are talking about it. All the parents are scratching their heads about it. And many families have sent us horror stories because they didn’t know what they were getting into, and their kids have been traumatized in its wake.  So what is anime…
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Dear Savvy: Is virtual school safe for kids?

Dear Savvy: Is virtual school safe for kids?

Can you believe it? We’re back to school and STILL stuck in this crazy pandemic. And like it or not, many kids are doing virtual school, at least part time. Some are 100% virtual. Are you panicking? Are you wondering … Is virtual school a safe environment for my kids? This episode is part of our #DearSavvy series. Sometimes you just want a quick answer to a burning question. These shorter episodes are designed to give you just that. Tune in to the podcast to hear the whole scoop, and check out the show notes for helpful tools and information.…
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Tech Safety 101: Routers, Filters, & Parental Controls

Tech Safety 101: Routers, Filters, & Parental Controls

Does it feel like you need a degree in computer science just to keep up with your kids online? Do you hyperventilate every time you think about their digital safety and what you might be missing? Well, what if there was an EASY way to make sense of routers, filters and parental controls? Would you want that? … Absolutely! As is the case with so many things, digital safety is not as much about what you know as it is about WHO you know. And … do we know a guy! His name is Chris McKenna, founder of Protect Young…
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