How We Stay Inspired and Come Up with New Ideas

How We Stay Inspired and Come Up with New Ideas

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Parenting, Porn & Not-So-Common Sense

Parenting, Porn & Not-So-Common Sense

Related Podcast: Ep. #1-11, Bad Parenting Advice About Porn: When Common Sense Flies Out the Window Why would I ever have to justify the stance that pornography is harmful to a 12-year-old child? That’s the question I keep playing over and over in my mind since I found myself in this exact scenario. Several individuals, who by every indication should have a child’s best interest in mind were quick to throw common sense out the window and offer this dangerous advice to other parents. (See story below). In response, this post will review 5 ways porn seriously harms children. It will dig…
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My Child Needs Help! 6 Practical Ways to Put Your Oxygen Mask on First

My Child Needs Help! 6 Practical Ways to Put Your Oxygen Mask on First

Everyone knows when the cabin pressure drops, you must put your own oxygen mask on before attending to others. That’s tough advice for parents to swallow. Even in the best of times we’re apt to put our kids’ needs ahead of our own. But when it comes to helping a child let go of a compulsion to use pornography, it's crucial that we have a dependable source of air to help us maintain steady breathing patterns. After all, it's going to be important to take regular calming breaths as we face the journey ahead. [media-credit name="Unsplash" link="https://unsplash.com/photos/WRM14fQLkV8?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" align="aligncenter" width="800"][/media-credit] Your…
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I Panicked When my Child Confided in Me About Porn, Now What?

I Panicked When my Child Confided in Me About Porn, Now What?

Related Podcast: Ep. #1-18, I Panicked When My Child Saw Porn, Now What? Don’t overreact! Almost every article I’ve read (and written) about what to do when you discover your child is viewing pornography starts out with this advice. Nine times out of ten it comes too late—you've already gone down that road! [media-credit name="Unsplash" link="https://unsplash.com/photos/dQLgop4tnsc?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" align="aligncenter" width="800"][/media-credit] So you didn’t have a perfect response? Well, congratulations… it’s confirmed... you’re human! Any parent in this situation would be flooded with negative emotions. Feelings of shock, horror, anger, fear, sadness, betrayal (the list goes on and on), are normal responses. So…
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Survival Instincts: The New Language of Tween Girls

Survival Instincts: The New Language of Tween Girls

After a series of revealing conversations with her 12-year-old daughter, one proactive mom learned there’s new vocabulary circulating among tween girls in the schoolyard. Turns out, their inventive language is a way to navigate the rapidly changing attitudes of boys influenced by porn culture. These girls are categorizing their classmates based on their acceptance or rejection of pornography. [media-credit name="Pixabay" align="aligncenter" width="800"][/media-credit] At Parents Aware we want to stress how important it is for kids to feel they have a safe place to talk about the complex pressures of growing up in a hyper-sexaulized society. Read on to discover how…
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The 7-day rule: Giving Your Kids a Safer Internet Experience

The 7-day rule: Giving Your Kids a Safer Internet Experience

February 6th was Safer Internet Day. And that got me thinking, “What could I do —or what could any parent do right now to make their kid’s internet experience safer?” Then it came to me —use the 7-day rule!! It can feel next to impossible to keep up with all the tricks and sneaky ways porn and predators have access to our kids through the internet. And with millions of apps available to children, how can parents be sure which are safe to use? [media-credit id=1 align="alignnone" width="800"][/media-credit] The solution is actually simpler than you think. It’s called the 7-day…
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Kids are Drowning in Porn; So Why Aren’t Parents Asking for Help? [Video Podcast]

Kids are Drowning in Porn; So Why Aren’t Parents Asking for Help? [Video Podcast]

If it feels like your kids are drowning in porn, then chances are, so are the kids of your closest friends. As parents our inclination is to clam up and say nothing to nobody. Why is this? [media-credit name="Photo by frank mckenna on Unsplash" link="https://unsplash.com/photos/h1vdmVQqPmM" align="aligncenter" width="800"][/media-credit] In today’s post and video podcast we’ll explore the answer to that very question. We’ll also find out what parents can do to get over their inhibitions on this topic and why talking with other parents about pornography will actually benefit our kids. I’m a parent and I have questions Just before we…
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E-free days: Unexpected Benefits for the Whole Family

E-free days: Unexpected Benefits for the Whole Family

When Kim and I met for lunch we had so much catching up to do that I almost forgot why I had planned this get-together with her. “Don’t forget! You were going to ask me about our family’s ‘E-free’ days.” “Oh my GOSH!” How could I have let that slip my mind? “Yes!!!” Honestly, this conversation couldn’t have come at a better time. I had just finished reading a sobering article, Have Smartphones Destroyed A Generation? If you haven’t read it yet—spoiler alert! Kids who have grown up with a silver iPhone in their hand describe themselves as more lonely…
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Knowledge: Power Against the Wave of Pornography

Knowledge: Power Against the Wave of Pornography

My kid drops a piece of toast on the floor. You bet he’s going to pick it up and use it. The 5-second rule is applied …ignorance is bliss. Never mind the average kitchen floor contains 860 bacteria/square inch! Knowledge is power ...until panic sets in! To be honest, I’m not too concerned about toast on the floor. But when something really threatens my child’s health and safety I want to be in the know! Easy access to online pornography is such a threat. But sometimes knowing the issue can send us into panic mode. What can we do to…
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How My Son Taught Me that Modesty is an Attitude

How My Son Taught Me that Modesty is an Attitude

A major pet peeve of mine is whenever the topic of modesty is brought up, it usually deteriorates quickly into making lists of what girls should and should not wear. There is little if any mention of how modesty relates to boys and their self-image. The truth is, modesty is an attitude that can greatly improve both girls' and boys' self-esteem. Recently, an experience with my youngest son challenged my perspective on modesty and presented me with a teaching opportunity. One Saturday morning  It was one of those days when the boys were annoyed with each other just for breathing…
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