[3-39] I Don’t Think I Can Tell My Parents About This

I’ve heard it both ways. Either “I could never tell my parents” or “telling my parents was the best thing I ever did.” Sometimes from the same kid! Sadly, it’s often when our kids need the most help that they retreat and distance themselves from us.

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Think about it. If it’s hard for us to talk to our kids about pornography, imagine how they must feel! In this episode, I invite parents to listen while I speak directly to tweens and teens. The goal is to help teens understand where their parents are coming from a bit better. And why parents can usually be trusted to help with any challenge they face, no matter what.

“Oh, I could never tell my parents!”

It breaks my heart when teens say they could never tell their parents about their struggle with pornography. (Or any struggle for that matter!) When secrets are kept there’s always more risk of getting hurt. It’s important to help teens and parents bridge the communication gap. 

In this episode:

• I could never ever. When teens think they can’t talk to their parents.
• Guardian and protector. Parents really can handle the big stuff! 
• Parents are humans too. They will make mistakes. Allow do-overs. 
• Use your safe network. Who are the trusted adults in your life?

Episode challenge

Teen challenge: If accessing pornography has become a habit in your life determine today that you will talk to someone. Decide if that will be a parent or another trusted adult. Then pick a time and then go for it. No regrets. 

Parent challenge: Follow this journal prompt. Imagine yourself needing to share a heavy secret. One that you worry would make people see you differently. What would you want that person to know about you? How would you want them to treat you? if they freaked out, how likely would you be to go to them again? Next, determine how you would react if your child approached you because they’re struggling with pornography.

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Links/Resources

NEW COURSE – Get Off the Fence: Confidently Talk to Your Child or Teen About Pornography

Ep. #3-2, Teen Inspires Families To Tackle The Porn Talk with Smith Alley

Ep. #2-42, How to Teach Kids Body Safety from an Early Age with Holly-ann Martin

FORTIFY – Is your teen struggling with pornography? Click here to check out Fortify – FREE for youth!

BARK – Want help monitoring your kids’ apps and social media? Click here for a FREE 30-day trial of the Bark App or download it at the app store and use our promo code: MEDIASAVVY

COVENANT EYES – Need great filtering software for your internet and devices? Click here to check out Covenant Eyes.

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Who knew honest conversations about parenting and pornography could be so approachable? Join Marilyn for a series of contemplations, chats, and interviews as she helps fellow parents tackle this challenging topic with their kids.

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