#FightForLove Movement: Winning the Heart of the World

#FightForLove Movement: Winning the Heart of the World

Forget fighting the old, it’s time to build the new. That’s Clay Olsen’s philosophy. And he’s used it to create a movement around the world where millions of young people are standing against porn to #fightforlove. [media-credit name="Photo by Kristina Litvjak on Unsplash" link="https://unsplash.com/photos/FO18LpXMlvk?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText" align="aligncenter" width="800"][/media-credit] Recently I had the opportunity to watch Clay in action as he engaged with students in my hometown! My first impression —this is a man with a big heart! My second impression —this is a movement that has an even bigger heart! Listening, you can’t help but believe that love can win! Everything Fight…
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The 7-day rule: Giving Your Kids a Safer Internet Experience

The 7-day rule: Giving Your Kids a Safer Internet Experience

February 6th was Safer Internet Day. And that got me thinking, “What could I do —or what could any parent do right now to make their kid’s internet experience safer?” Then it came to me —use the 7-day rule!! It can feel next to impossible to keep up with all the tricks and sneaky ways porn and predators have access to our kids through the internet. And with millions of apps available to children, how can parents be sure which are safe to use? [media-credit id=1 align="alignnone" width="800"][/media-credit] The solution is actually simpler than you think. It’s called the 7-day…
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Kids are Drowning in Porn; So Why Aren’t Parents Asking for Help? [Video Podcast]

Kids are Drowning in Porn; So Why Aren’t Parents Asking for Help? [Video Podcast]

If it feels like your kids are drowning in porn, then chances are, so are the kids of your closest friends. As parents our inclination is to clam up and say nothing to nobody. Why is this? [media-credit name="Photo by frank mckenna on Unsplash" link="https://unsplash.com/photos/h1vdmVQqPmM" align="aligncenter" width="800"][/media-credit] In today’s post and video podcast we’ll explore the answer to that very question. We’ll also find out what parents can do to get over their inhibitions on this topic and why talking with other parents about pornography will actually benefit our kids. I’m a parent and I have questions Just before we…
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Parents Aware Podcast 002 [Sneak Peek]: Compassion for a Friend Struggling with Porn Addiction

Parents Aware Podcast 002 [Sneak Peek]: Compassion for a Friend Struggling with Porn Addiction

Life is busy for everyone! It’s no exception here at Parents Aware. That said, we haven’t stopped working on new ideas to help you continue the conversation with children and teens about pornography —including a brand new Parents Aware Podcast! I don’t know about you, but sometimes I have so much on my plate I don’t get to read everything I want. In fact, there’s so much good information online that I often feel overwhelmed by what I can't get to. This is why I've decided to focus on 3 areas at Parents Aware that will help you stay up-to-date on this incredibly…
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I Gave Up Sugar to Help a Friend Struggling With Porn

I Gave Up Sugar to Help a Friend Struggling With Porn

As the old adage goes: Before you judge someone, walk a mile in their shoes. If you've ever watched a friend struggling with porn you know how hard it can be to empathize. In fact, at times you may feel like throwing your hands in the air and shouting  —"Just get over it already!"  One of our main objectives at Parents Aware is to promote understanding of the addictive nature of pornography. That's because there are thousands of teens and young adults joining different recovery programs every year. Many were introduced to porn as kids. They stumbled across it online. One…
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E-free days: Unexpected Benefits for the Whole Family

E-free days: Unexpected Benefits for the Whole Family

When Kim and I met for lunch we had so much catching up to do that I almost forgot why I had planned this get-together with her. “Don’t forget! You were going to ask me about our family’s ‘E-free’ days.” “Oh my GOSH!” How could I have let that slip my mind? “Yes!!!” Honestly, this conversation couldn’t have come at a better time. I had just finished reading a sobering article, Have Smartphones Destroyed A Generation? If you haven’t read it yet—spoiler alert! Kids who have grown up with a silver iPhone in their hand describe themselves as more lonely…
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Knowledge: Power Against the Wave of Pornography

Knowledge: Power Against the Wave of Pornography

My kid drops a piece of toast on the floor. You bet he’s going to pick it up and use it. The 5-second rule is applied …ignorance is bliss. Never mind the average kitchen floor contains 860 bacteria/square inch! Knowledge is power ...until panic sets in! To be honest, I’m not too concerned about toast on the floor. But when something really threatens my child’s health and safety I want to be in the know! Easy access to online pornography is such a threat. But sometimes knowing the issue can send us into panic mode. What can we do to…
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Countdown On. Race for Virtue. Fight Sexual Exploitation!

Countdown On. Race for Virtue. Fight Sexual Exploitation!

Just as treasures are uncovered from the earth, so virtue appears from good deeds, and wisdom appears from a pure and peaceful mind. To walk safely through the maze of human life, one needs the light of wisdom and the guidance of virtue. —Buddha In 9 days I am going to lace on my running shoes, gather up my kids, friends, and neighbors to Race for Virtue. I invite you to join me. Read on as I explain how and why. What is Race for Virtue? I found out about Race for Virtue just a few short weeks ago when…
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Protect Children Online! Call for Meaningful Age Verification

Protect Children Online! Call for Meaningful Age Verification

So many kids stumble upon pornography every day, that sadly we’ve come to expect it as the norm. At Parents Aware we believe kids have the right to enjoy safe online experiences without the risk of exposure to hardcore pornography.  This is why we fully support the petition to adopt meaningful age verification put forward by MP, Arnold Vierson. In this post, you will read about one proactive mom and her approach to helping her kids prepare to reject pornography before they see it.  Her experience illustrates why every family, regardless of how vigilant, will want meaningful age verification to…
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How My Son Taught Me that Modesty is an Attitude

How My Son Taught Me that Modesty is an Attitude

A major pet peeve of mine is whenever the topic of modesty is brought up, it usually deteriorates quickly into making lists of what girls should and should not wear. There is little if any mention of how modesty relates to boys and their self-image. The truth is, modesty is an attitude that can greatly improve both girls' and boys' self-esteem. Recently, an experience with my youngest son challenged my perspective on modesty and presented me with a teaching opportunity. One Saturday morning  It was one of those days when the boys were annoyed with each other just for breathing…
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